My grandmother is unfair?

You know, a great thing about this, is that you are aware of what she does and why she does it, and you can be a great et to your mom by helping her out and talking to her to comfort her when her mom treats her badly. It is very unfair that the one side of the family that does love her and cares for her, she detests, and the other side, which only uses her, gets to live in the lap of luxury and not have to worry about her. But, try to remember this. You and your mom are all she has. She may not know this, but you do. I believe in my heart and mind that she knows how her son truly feels about her, and I think that is why she treats your mother so badly, because she has to be angry with someone, and she can be angry with your mother. Is it fair? No. Is it right? No. But, she has no one else. Imagine how sad her life would be if you and your mom weren't there? Try to remember when she gets angry or starts problems, that she is probably wanting badly to be with her son, who doesn't even want her. I believe in karma. The good you do for others will come back to you. Try to remember that.